“Lifelong Love”

                        

Hy guys my name is Rusmini , you can called me Iyus , but whatever you want called me Iyus , yuyu , yuyus , or Ciyus. Hehe it’s my love story with my extended family.

14 february 1996 ,a married couple smiling happily welcome this little one highly anticipated 9 months old. Didn’t counted how much my parents love gave to me , since i was a kid many wise words gave to me. Mom said “it for arranging all the good future”.  Got older i began to understood the beauty of love. A story of love that felt beautiful when i strung my world began to recognized, to know nature is beautiful and a great life socialite. But when i was 8 years old i moved that made me felt uneasy didn’t understood what’s going on with my parents, then i heard a serious discussion with the high notes and such explosiveness. Cries the mother who said “go , and had enough with this long suffering” i didn’t understood, But suddenly felt down and wept tears at the time i had a brother who was about 4 years old. My mother and father didn’t long into my room and woke my mother took my brother and me. At that time i was just crying, didn’t understood what the issues faced parents. The atmosphere was calm again, when my brother was cried and my dad took him to saw a star beyond. Then my mom calm me and rock me to sleep again. Doesn’t happen again the next day atmosphere like last night, yes, maybe it’s an adult problem , i thought at the time. Only one was expected at the time, i didn’t want all that to happen again. I felt my world went dark since my age 10 years. More parents showed his selfishness than you love them. When the mother and father caught a few issues that i think it isn’t understandable. Then i ran and asked the grandmother “what’s wrong with them?” grandmother answered with smooth tones “was just the emotion of love dear, when you grow up you will understand”. Although at that time i can only wonder disturb but i’m sure what the grandmother said.

Time passed so quickly and eventually grandmother decided to stay in his hometown to  felt his age. After a decision acceptable to all the family grandmother , grandmother went to his hometown. Since then i lost my grandmother figure, but grandmother once said “Love is love of lifelong family , things are the same God who created us with immense love” , up until now i always remembered the advice my grandmother. Until the 15th of december 2009 my phone rang and i saw it was a called from the grandmother, but this time the grandmother gave the bad news, namely sick grandfather and existed hospital. The same day my parents went to my hometown to take care of grandfather granny. But God willerd others, grandfather died on 19 December 2009, all the families seemed not accepted the loss of her grandfather, as well as with grandmother , but grandmother back saying “the words that male all the family try to be patient because the grandmother certainly more hit. Finally a few days went by untill finally grandmother was seriously i will and had to be rushed to the hospital, the same hospital with a sick grandmother grandfather to all  the family at the time of panic, but the grandmother back said “life long love of family that” all families simultaneously cried and scared to lose a grandmother,because grandfather had just passed away 40 days earlier. Grandmother untill his last breath in the hospital, in the same room and at the same time with the death of the grandfather at the time. Words grandmother always kept up to date. I can only conclude that this is what grandmother about lifelong love. God has a will of others behind everything that happened.

As the years passed, even my age 16 years, i understood what was said when the grandmother of selfishness in love, and the love story of lifelong love. Until one day my parents back to solved the problem with less high tones , this time i understood that the anger and quarrels. I always tried to intervence but selfishness over control of their heart until they finally decided to split up. Then i want to went and catch up grandmother, but i remembered advice about the grandmother and a lifelong love of God had plans at this time i was only able to freshen up for his brother and mother because love is liked the grandmother said “lifelong love”. Thank you so much grandma grandpa, i hope you can happy inside Allah SWT.